The cloudy weather and the half sleepy me – is not much
exciting until and unless if it is a weekend or a holiday. To kick back before
applying 5 second rule, lying on my bed I opened Facebook- all-time favorite time
pass. One of the timeline quote put up
by a friend stroke me hard. It said:
“The dearest things in your life became a part of your memory
by giving you a lot to things to remember and cherish.”
It’s damn true! But I don’t know if the things or people close
to our heart always give the happy memories which we could cherish. From the
lessons and experiences I have come across, the dearest to your heart have the
power to pierce and break you down. They say love unconditionally. But how can we
love unconditional?
The quantity of the love and care you give to the people you
care differs. The amount of affection you show to the people who you come
across differs- depends on the intimacy levels. When we provide care for the
ones in our life, we expect some love back from them. Maybe that’s the mistake –
expecting back. But we as a normal human being, expects. Probably when we reach
a level of solitary or self-less, it is possible. When the mind laze around, I always get this
question out of nowhere, why do people get attached when they know that they
are not going to be the same down the line, maybe within a few days , months or
years. Why are they changing their priorities? If they know that they are going
to be change, why can’t they be within the boundaries?
Sometimes I wish if I could to stop the time so that the
things remain as it is. If it is that
way, the life would have been easier.
Maybe all this questions are silly or it’s only my way of
perception or my frustrations are popping out as this questions. After all life
should be a mix of sweet and sour. Otherwise one day when we get the love back
that we squandered until then, you won’t realize the value.